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Male Circumcision
Trauma Survey
Click on picture to take the survey Childhood trauma is known to have a lasting, negative effect on adult life. The earlier the trauma occurs, the more devastating the effect, and the more difficult to treat later. It is thought that if a trauma occurs before the child learns language, then it is even more difficult to treat using traditional talk-therapy methods. Recent research is showing that boys, not girls, are the ‘weaker sex’ in that they are more prone to environmental harm. Boys are less likely to receive as much holding, caressing, and attention from parents. Parents let boys cry longer before coming to their assistance such as if they are hurt, hungry, or have soiled diapers. Some parents intentionally let boys cry longer employing the mistaken belief that doing so will somehow prepare him for manhood. When born, both boys and girls express themselves equally well with non-verbal communication, but by the time they are three, boys are less communicative than girls are. As long ago as 1986, researchers cautioned that the gender differences being found in studies may be the effect of mass circumcision of boys. Yet to this day few researchers control for penile status. As one victim said about a stressful event he believed was associated with his circumcision trauma, “My physical reaction was so extreme, you can be sure I didn't put myself in a position to have it happen more than once, or at least not for another 10 years.” Dan Bollinger, Executive Director, www.ICGI.org, Men’s workshop facilitator
Copyright 2006 Dan Bollinger, all rights reserved
This page was last updated:
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